Club Consciousness – February 2026

February 2026 – Club Consciousness – The Clearing Marathon

When you’re proving anything, you essentially already believe the opposite is what’s true. So, if you’re proving wrongness, what does that indicate? That you are right.

I wonder if proof is the substitute for when you can’t actually make something with somebody work? When it is not possible to succeed in the relationship the way you want it? And then you start going into proof?

Proof, in my opinion, isn’t the issue. It’s an indicator of the greater choice that you’re not making, like allowance. Because if you’re proving anything, you’re already completely in reaction. As soon as proof is going on, you’re totally owned by something, a point of view, a reality, you’re in reaction. So, proof is a very disempowering place to function from.

If you’re proving wrongness a lot of the time, what you’re ultimately also proving is that you’re right. Which is far more dangerous than wrongness, because rightness is unquestioned. It’s like, “Well, I’m right. Therefore there needs to be no question around this.” Wrongness you’ll still work with, rightness is way more limiting.